Last Days at the Local Beach

What a brave girl - she's happy to put her head completely under the water now!
Not so sure about this chilly water, Mom!

Playing together...

Collecting sand to splatter on his sister.

Digging a canal - her latest obsession.

Summer Soccer for Tots

Stealing the ball from a teammate made him stop in his tracks and cry. It must be confusing for them to be told to always share and ask permission before you take something from someone in the rest of their lives, but then when you get on the sports field be instructed to "steal" a ball away from your friend.
Chasing down the ball - all smiles!

Myrick and a teammate sharing the net for a little rest break. Four year old soccer is strenuous stuff!

I've loved taking Myrick to her local summer soccer camp this year. Getting to know the other kids that she will spend the next 13 years with in school has been interesting and fun! Here are some shots from her first forays into soccer - too cute!

A Little of This and a Little of That

On the "drive" home from the lake, Pender falls sound asleep at 5:15 pm. The drive takes only seven minutes!

A little soccer time in the yard with Daddy before dinner

Great summer day here filled with a little of everything as the summer winds down: classroom prep time, swimming in the lake, soccer in the yard, harvesting blackberries with the neighbor's kids, and my all-time favorite... leftovers for dinner!

Dot Has Some Adventures

by Myrick Abigail Oxnard

Chapter 1:
Once upon a time when Dot got lost she didn't know where she was. So when Daddy looked and looked, he couldn't find her. But in the morning Papa came over to build Myrick's jungle gym. Myrick loved her jungle gym. Myrick really, really loved her jungle gym, and it was so great. She jumped up and down and yelled "Yay!" When Dot really wanted to not get lost anymore, Dad was walking Whidbey and Papa was walking hisself, but when they opened the woodshed, they found Dot. She was so silly, she was on the tractor, and was really, really excited to see Daddy. Daddy put her back in the chicken coop.

Chapter 2:
This morning when Sassy was walking with Dot, Dot flew up on the jungle gym and it was so silly. She was on the little board that was very high up. She flapped and that's what she said. She flew down and it was so silly, silly, silly, and we all said, "What did she do?" And she flew down.

The End

Puddle Stompers

Although it was a rainy day here, we forged ahead and went outside despite Pender not having proper rubber rain boots or even a rain shell. He clearly didn't seem to mind!

Swimming in Traverse

Great visit to Traverse City this year--surprisingly warm weather and water, and strong breeze to boot. Pender's first time out there, and it took him some time to warm up to being on the dock. Myrick, on the other hand, practically ran down the dock and jumped off! Not so sure whether this fearless phase is a good thing.... With her life jacket on, she followed cousin Maddie's lead and perfected her 'swimming' (mostly consisting of flailing around in the water with gradual net movement in one direction).

Fortunately for Pen, the trip coincided with a burst in his appreciation for climbing stairs. Lots of stairs to choose from at Barking Waters, and lots of people around to keep an eye on him! Myrick, meanwhile, had some quality art time, painting with Maddie in the living room.

Jumping at the Dunes, floating down the balmy 'flat Platte', taking my honey for a spin in a Sunfish (reminiscent of our honeymoon days)--good times....

Traveling Tunes

Nate is sort of famous for his CD mixes (yeah, he's a little old school which is one of the things I love about him), and he has made several mixes for the kids already, in addition to many road trip compilations when we were just young married things traveling all around. So for our 60+ hour/3,000 mile summer road trip, Nate made a mix CD for the kids. Myrick's favorite song has turned out to be "Hit the Road Jack". She frequently requested it while we were driving and still loves singing it. I think this clip was taken on our first day in the car as we were stuck in DC traffic. Thank goodness for a 4 year old's ability to lighten the mood at the end of a 10+ hour day in the car!

Pender's Moves

Pender loves to dance, and while taking a break from the sunshine and waves, the kids watched a little PBS with just enough background music to make him want to boogie! Love it!

Cousin Camp 2011: Outer Banks Style

For our third annual Cousin Camp, Akie and Poppy decided to have a destination vacation at a place that we have great family memories of, the Outer Banks of NC. Although we didn't get back to Emerald Isle, the house mom and dad rented between Duck and Corolla was fantastic with plenty of space for all of us. It was beautiful but strange to go back as an adult when we haven't been in over twenty years! The dunes seemed smaller and more grown over and there weren't as many spectacular seashells as mom and I remembered; Jes did manage to find whole sand dollars, though! I love how each day began pretty early (because of the four early rising kids, of course!) with a walk on the beach to collect shells. Jes thought to bring little canvas bags that they each decorated with their name, and they were perfect for dropping all of their shells into. Some of the memorable highlights:

• the fox that we watched for several evenings at dusk who came sneaking though our front "yard",


• The Outliers family book club even though everyone made fun of my prepared questions,


• watching the kids splash in the tide pools during low tide,


• cooking for each other and enjoying all of the delicious food,


• Myrick getting some prickly pear needles stuck in her foot at Kitty Hawk and howling like she was dying,


• enjoying a trip to the Wright Brothers Museum with Poppy


• lifting the kids over the waves with the kids in between Akie and me


• Pender crying on the beach every time Nate or I would walk towards the ocean,


• making sand castles and moats with Myrick and Nate,


• using the outdoor shower to get the LOADS of sand out of the kids' bottoms before heading inside,


• and of course turning around to see one of the boys with his britches down peeing into the sand bank - hilarious!
  

Thank you mom and dad, for a great Cousin Camp - we will be talking about it for years to come. As much fun as it was for the adults, however, I know Myrick really missed being in SC at the place that she thinks of when she thinks of Cousin Camp and Akie and Poppy. Next year will have to be back to the place that she loves the best!

Sorting her seashells into organized piles - Mommy and Poppy approve!

Decorating Chris's and Jes's birthday cake

Maddox, Myrick, and Nixon - did I get the boys right, Chris???

Happily and safely in his chair - Pender didn't like the sand very much...

Focusing on decorating her sand castle with seashells

My trepidatious son - the waves were also not his favorite!

Low tide

The Gift of an Ordinary Day

Honoring the Kids' Summer

Excited to be in the wood shed

Picking the beans she planted

Helping Daddy stack wood

We put them to work young here in New Hampshire

Myrick enjoyed it and didn't react too strongly when the Wicked Witch of the West made her big entrance

Past his bedtime, but what a trooper - he loved it!

Waiting for the show

Pender before "The Wizard of Oz" in Prescott Park

Berry stained mouth

Nate and Myrick having tent time

First time camping out in the backyard - just a tad excited!

Tub time

Playing among the birches

Pender enjoys the blueberry buffet

Ready for a romp in the berry patch

I was reading an article in today's local paper about how kids these days spend their summers versus kids in the past. The article contrasted today's kids as being over scheduled and overstimulated to those in the past as having hours upon hours of free, unstructured time. I'm leaving out a lot of important details, but the simplified 'moral' of the article was that there is much to be gained from providing kids with both: the structured time and activities do keep them physically and mentally active while the unstructured free time opens up their creativity, self-motivation, and imagination. I liked how the article talked about striking the right balance during the summer with your kids. Looking at how our summer has shaken out, I think we've done a pretty good job with this. We've had lots of family time while away on vacation, Myrick has some structured summer activities like swim lessons and tee-ball/soccer camp, and we've had several playdates to keep her socially engaged. At the same time, I cannot even begin to count the hours we've spent among the wild strawberries, raspberry patches, blueberry bushes, and blackberry patches just wandering, searching, being amazed at the sizes, shapes, smells, and tastes of the things we 'harvest'. Both Pender and Myrick have spent a great deal of time outdoors this summer occupying themselves among the blueberries or playing with sidewalk chalk in the driveway or building canals and castles at our local beach. One thing that has amazed me is how Myrick has managed to occupy herself with books this summer. She started waking up pretty early and was waking up Pender, too - this was not good for Pen, so we devised a strategy to get her out of their room and into ours if/when she woke up early. We made a cozy book-nook on the love seat in our bedroom and leave a stack of books next to it. She has regularly spent an hour reading to herself quietly in our room, and around 7am she will walk over to my side of the bed and kiss me to tell me it's time to get up. Amazing that she can do that and that we get extra sleep! Anyhow, here are some shots of summer around the house.